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I think Over the past several months, my definition of family has slowly been shifting.  I have had a lot of different bursts of beef with many different people in recent months, mainly my mom's side of the family.  Perhaps it is because they still see me as a teenager, or maybe it is because they are under so much stress. Maybe it is because they are used to me just submitting and doing what I'm told, whether it was the right thing or not.  I'm not that person anymore.  I'm tired of being beaten down by people, and taking orders.  I want to do what I know is right, even if it means cutting ties with people I care about.

I'm not going to let my mom's side of the family use me or my dad anymore.  I'm not gonna just sit there and let people say that what I think doesn't matter.  I think that If I don't approve of being in the same house with my cousin when she has strange men over, that I have a right to say so. I think I have a right to be upset when my older cousin winds up getting pregnant, not even a month after finding out my younger cousin was having unprotected sex, even though I told her several times that she would put herself in a bad spot. I think that I have a right to stick up for myself so people stop using me as a go-between. I don't think that you should keep your problems to yourself if you have an issue with somebody, because that only makes it worse in the long run.

No, I'm slowly coming to terms with the fact that I am going to have a new immediate family, starting with Sam, my dad, and Sam's parents and siblings.  It is hard, but there is only so much I can do before I can't do anymore.  I love everyone, but they make it difficult. end of story.

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Getthegrooveon Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Stopping by to say happy birthday 
DriftingFeather Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Happy Birthday sis. I'll call you sometime later today. I would do it right now, but it's probably too late. Hope you're doing well and that you have a great birthday today and hope things aren't too hectic. :hug: :hug: :hug:
Getthegrooveon Featured By Owner Jul 10, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Heya Kat! imma watch you back XD
Kiri-Taiyaka Featured By Owner Jul 10, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
WOOOOT!! Hi! ^^
DriftingFeather Featured By Owner Aug 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Hey there sis, I know I won't be able to say this on your actual birthday so I'm going to say it now. HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY!!!!! There is something else I want to make for you so I'll have that submitted the week after this one coming up. I hope you have an amazing birthday when it arrives and many more years after. Gosh I remember when you were so young, I mean you're still young now, but gosh amazing about how many years have past. Again I hope you enjoy your birthday. :hug: Also again get well soon too. God bless and enjoy your days. :] :glomp:
Kitsune1978 Featured By Owner Jan 11, 2013
Hey, I thought you might be interested in joining Gaara-Da-Man-FC. I've sent you an invitation.
Kiri-Taiyaka Featured By Owner Jan 11, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Sure, that sounds great! I absolutely adore Gaara! :) But I'm not really all that much of an artist ^^;; I do write a lot better, however, if that counts.
Kitsune1978 Featured By Owner Jan 12, 2013
I'm into writing rather than drawing, too :D I hope you'll enjoy your stay in the group :)
Kiri-Taiyaka Featured By Owner Jan 12, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I saw that, I'm reading your GaaMatsu Story right now :) It's very interesting so far. Thank you very much!^^
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PinkWoods Featured By Owner Nov 30, 2012  Hobbyist Interface Designer
Thank you for the watch! :D
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